Monday, October 27, 2014

BE AWARE

Usually when the month of October comes around, the first think people think of is Halloween.  Although the holiday itself is not celebrated until the last day of the month, everywhere you go there is décor of pumpkins and goblins.  However, the month of October is also known for raising social awareness for many different things that affect our lives every day.   For example, did you know that the month of October is dedicated to AIDS awareness?  It is also the month to raise awareness for bullying prevention and dental hygiene awareness.  I want to focus on three other observances that are just as important but sometimes overlooked: breast cancer, domestic violence and pregnancy and infant loss awareness.   

Recognized by the infamous pink ribbon, Breast Cancer Awareness month started in 1985 by the American Cancer Society and a pharmaceutical company known for manufacturing several cancer fighting drugs.  According to www.breastcancer.org, one out of every eight women develops invasive breast cancer. This disease is no stranger to society.  October is dedicated to educating women about the disease and promoting early detection by reminding women to get screened.  Throughout the years, science has learned more about the disease and how to fight it, especially if detected early.  This month, join the cause to get the word out through various events:  marathons, health fairs, mixers, or simply just wear pink.  If you haven’t scheduled your mammogram for this year, do it now.  Remind a mother, a sister a friend.  Early detection can save your life!

Lately, the news has been full of stories of domestic violence involving celebrities.  What about the stories that we don’t hear about?  Domestic violence has been an issue for decades and October is designated for awareness of this social issue.   The statistics of those that are victims of domestic violence are disheartening.  Although mostly associated with women, more men are becoming victims of abuse.  This month, awareness is put forth not only for people to know that the abuse exists, but for the victims to know that there is help.  According to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, it is reported that 24 people per minute are victims of domestic violence.  Imagine what the number would be if all instances were reported.  People have to know that there is help.  It starts with knowing if you’re a victim first and then learning how to be a victor.  There are many resources for victims for healing and restoration available.  There is hope!

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness month began with President Ronald Reagan when he made his proclamation in October of 1988.  Initially started to shed light on miscarriages and still birth, over the years the month has included awareness to infant loss due SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome).  It is said that there is no greater loss than that of a child and the grief is unbearable.  During this month of awareness, parents and loved ones band together to remember their babies and heal together as a community.  With one in every three pregnancies ending in loss, there are millions of people dealing with the emotional shock on a daily basis with no knowledge of hope.  Awareness brings resources and outlets for families to learn to “live” after the loss.  Ronald Reagan said "When a child loses his parent, they are called an orphan. When a spouse loses her or his partner, they are called a widow or widower. When parents lose their child, there isn't a word to describe them."  This month, let us remember not only the babies but the parents and loved ones. 

When the month is over and all of the social events have ended, the causes will still remain.  Don’t hide breast cancer awareness in the back of your mind until next year.  Don’t ignore signs of domestic violence in your life or a loved one’s life until it is too late.  Don’t distance yourself from others after a loss of an infant.  In all of these situations, there is help.  For more information, visit these sites below. 

Breast Cancer

Domestic Violence

Pregnancy and Infant Loss


If you or someone you know has had experience with breast cancer, domestic violence, pregnancy loss or infant loss, I want to pray for you.  Email me at info@mendingmaria.com



Mending Maria

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